Relationship Problem: Communication All relationship problems stem from poor communication, you can't communicate while you are checking your iphone, watching TV, or flipping through the sports section," Problem solving strategies: Make an actual appointment with each other, if you live together, put the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed and let voice mail pick up ur calls. If you can't communicate without raising your voices, go to a public spot like the library, park, or embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming. Set up some rules. try not to interrupt until your partner is through speaking, or ban phrases such as "You always ....." or "You never...." Use body language to show you are listening. don't doodle, look at your watch, or pick at your nails nod so the other person knows you are getting the message, and rephrase if you need to. For instance, say, "What I hear you saying is that you feel as though you have more chore...